The Trial of Waiting 

No one likes to wait. Not even the most patient person. In this age of “instant” waiting is even harder.

Waiting is inevitable. Just like the metro manila traffic is. Sometimes we can predict it, sometimes we can’t. Moments of waiting will happen.

But waiting is necessary. It’s the only way we learn how to be patient. To practice what the Bible teaches, and to have the fruit of the Spirit manifest in our lives. 

And waiting is good. It develops character. It has the potential to develop intimacy, trust and dependence in God. 

So don’t miss out on the benefits of waiting. No one likes it, but it is inevitable and it is good for your soul. Make the most out of it by building our faith and trust in God who’s timing is always perfect. 

I waited patiently for the LORD; he inclined to me and heard my cry. 

He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure. 

He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the LORD. – Psalm 40:1-3

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God, Man and Work (Part 1) 



I had the privilege to speak in our church’s location in greenhills for a men’s meeting. The topic was on work. Here’s a two part blog based on the talk.

Many view work as just a means to an end or view work as a curse.

Another extreme will be those who view it as a way to exalt themselves. It becomes an idol and therefore allows it to shape their identity.


Work is neither a curse nor an idol. It is given by God and is not God. We will look at its original intent, its Creator, how did wrong world views come about, and its redemption. Scriptures will show us that…

God worked 

In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. – Genesis 1:1

It’s interesting to take note that the very first thing God did, as recorded here, was that He worked, and that working was expressed in creating. Do you know that your work is your daily canvas. You are given the creative gift by God to make something out of nothing. Work shouldn’t just be clock work. You are an artist gifted by God to create just as He did. 

God enjoyed work 

And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day. – Genesis 1:31

Now that you view your work as art, not just as obligation you get to enjoy the fruit of your labor. Not just the monetary fruit, but the fruit of higher purpose. True fulfillment comes when we do our best not for our fame, but for God’s name to be glorified. (We’ll discuss more on this on part two)

God commisoned man to work 

The LORD God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it. – Genesis 2:15

God did not just do it and enjoyed it, He gives us the privilege to share in it. Work is not a curse. It resembles the nature of our God. But it is not just and invitation, it’s a commission. The master tells us to work it and keep it. That means to work hard and to keep watch over it. Not just to mindlessly accomplish tasks, but to manage, to oversee, to do all you can excellently because you do this for Him. 

In part 2 of this blog we will talk about the Problem of work, it’s redemption and it’s purpose. 

Questions: 
1. What do you love about your job? Why do you find that part enjoyable?

2. Where have you experienced frustration in your work?

3. What motivates you the most about your job. 

Can ministry earn me favor and blessing? 


Many of us church volunteers and leaders, love to participate in God’s work to advance His Kingdom. But could it be that our purpose for doing so is to get more of God’s favor, blessing, and even His Presence? 

We probably know that the gospel offers forgiveness and salvation. But do we think for one second that when it comes to God’s favor, blessing or access to Him, we need to strive for it?

Think again. The Gospel in itself offers His provision and His Presence, too. 

And if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s offspring, heirs according to promise. – Galatians 3:29


There is a tendency for us to forget this given the system of the transactional world we live in. We’re simply limited from comprehending this grace completely. It won’t even take our lifetime, not even an eternity to fully grasp it.  
If we can truly begin to understand this grace, we will feel compelled to serve God with excellence and dedication, to honor Him in every way as a response

If you’re in Christ, you are already favored, forgiven, and free. He is pleased with you, not because of the ways you seek Him out, but because of His Son who sought you out. Not because of the ministry work you do, but because of His ministry’s work on the cross. 

Prayer 
Lord, we repent if there’s any hint of pride in the work we do for You. Help us humble ourselves to meditate on the real assessment of ourselves–sinners saved by grace. May we always remember that we cannot gain Your approval, favor and Your Presence. Because once we are in Christ, we already have all these. In Jesus name… Amen.

Tips on How to Prepare for the New Year. 


Happy New Year! 

2016 was probably filled with epic memories. Now that 2017 is here, it’s time to make more. To reach new milestones, one has to make dreams come to reality. Here’s a simple process I suggest: Dream, Plan, Budget, Execute, and Review. Sounds like something you do only in the office. Well, I have news for you: This process will probably prove vital even in your personal life. So read on and I hope that this inspires you to as I share my thoughts on these principles. 

DREAM

When I say dream, what I mean is ask yourself what your goal for the year is. When setting personal goals, do your self a favor by being very clear with what you want. Don’t drown yourself with the many things that you think you have to do. Choose one major goal then break it down to sub-goals that serve that one goal. So a good question to ask yourself is, “What’s my one thing for 2017?” Once you have that one thing, you can proceed to the next step.

PLAN
And the LORD answered me: “Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it. – Habakuk 2:2
We all plan one way or the other, but only some people document their plans. The verse above shows the importance of having plans documented. If your plans are put in writing, then and only then will they be clear to you. And when you get sidetracked along the way, you can always go back to the plan.

BUDGET
Some (if not all) of those plans will have a budget to it. My wife and I agreed that this year our goal is to give more. So, we set aside a budget for that. How about you? If your goal is to lose weight, start putting a budget to it. Find a gym that suits your budget or allocate funds for a nice pair of running shoes. Whatever it is, put your money on it. It doesn’t matter how much money you allocate. The point is that you put value into your plans by actually spending for them. 
Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? – Luke 14:28

EXECUTE
Plans remain cute if you don’t execute. Some people have a bias to planning, and it just so happens I’m one of those who have a bias for action. Of course, we’re all afraid of being ur plans failing, but isn’t it much better to execute, fail, then learn? So it’s important that even as early as the planning stage, you make plans that are attainable. And after planning, JUST DO IT!

REVIEW
Designate a time within the year to take a look back at your dreams and where you are with the plans. Honestly asses if you need to stop, continue, or improve the strategy. This will help you reach your goals quicker. I believe in “the speed of humility,” which enables you to be aware of the plans that you should keep, adjust, or simply do away with. Self pity and stubbornness will slow you down and prevent you from achieving your goals. 
But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” – James 4:6 

Most importantly, commit time in doing these five steps. For you to have motivation, commit them to the Lord. Ask yourself, “How will these plans honor God?” This brings you a greater sense of purpose. 

Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. – Proverbs 16:3

It’s time to plan your holiday vacation. 

This is the season to be jolly and to be busy. For some, work load has lessened, but all of a sudden, most people have added either party animal or party planner to their resume. Since the over all load of activities has increased, you need to intentionally rest during this vacation season. 

Here are some tips for those staying in or traveling (locally and abroad).  

Staycation 

The awesome thing about staycationing is the fact that the usually congested Manila has less traffic. Last time we did a staycation, it was so easy to go mall hopping. Travel time from Century City mall in Makati to the busy Megamall took only 25 minutes! While driving the unusually clear roads, I found myself so relaxed and started praying for a time when Manila’s streets would have better and more efficient traffic flow. Another way to enjoy a staycation is, if you’ve got the cash, to check in a hotel and enjoy its amenities.

Travel locally 

Do you realize how beautiful our nation is? Foreigners flock to our beaches and spend so much to be here. That in itself is your clue about how our country is truly beautiful. Now the usual suspects, such as Boracay and Palawan, will always be top of mind, but if you’re on a budget, you might want to checkout nearby destinations such as La Union. We now have the TPLEX (tarlac, pangasinan, launion express way), which cuts travel time to La Union to 3-4 hours. 


A good combo would be to check in on one of those beaches in La Union and take a trip to Baguio which is only 30-45 minutes away by car. La Union boasts of good waves to surf on and tranquil beaches at Agoo, Caba, Bauang, and San Juan. Click here for a good list of resorts to try.

Travel Abroad 

Go abroad and learn and appreciate other cultures. When my wife and I go out on a trip, we look forward to the food the most. I heard from a friend that Taipei’s tourism has gone to the next level.


 And what’s great is, it’s much cheaper than a trip to Hong Kong, but you get almost the same experience.

Last and most definitely not least, whether you’re doing a staycation or traveling, don’t forget your Bible. Be excited for those quiet moments of being intimate with God in a relaxed setting. 

Everyone needs a break. Let’s face it, activities and parties, can burn you out. If you go straight back to the office after all this, you start your year exhausted already. Remember, rest is just as important as your work. Go plan out your vacation and be sure to include relaxation and seeking God in the itinerary. 

How to deal with gossip at the workplace. 

 
Gossip in the office is as common as coffee in the pantry, especially in our culture. But it doesn’t mean that we can just accept this fact and engage in it simply because everyone else is doing it anyway. It doesn’t just destroy personal relationships, but also working relationships.

Starting gossip is obviously wrong, but entertaining it is equally as harmful to your peers and most especially to you. 

So what do you do when gossip draws you in? 

1. Know your involvement – When someone starts volunteering information, here’s a simple way of qualifying: Ask yourself, “Am I a part of the problem and/or part of the solution?” If you don’t fall under either category, then politely excuse yourself from hearing the “juicy details” further. Stories just get juicer as the plot thickens, so cutting it at the bud protects you from the temptation to know more. But if you are either part of the problem and/or solution, and this is something you must know then…

2. Qualify the source – When getting information, what matters to me first is the source. A good question to ask before hearing further details is, “Where did you hear this?” Now the source may be credible, but again if you’re not part of the problem or solution, keep away from this. 

3. Do something – Information remains gossip if there are no actionable items laid out. The real intention of discussing problematic scenarios is always for the purpose of figuring out what needs to be done. In this case there should always be a bias to action rather than a bias for discussion. Too much talk on a certain issue without the intention to find solutions is gossip. 

4. Don’t pass the message – Some do this especially if it gets really emotional. Choose those you discuss and vent out to. And if people go to you to inquire about the issue, this is where a “Need to know” basis applies. Do those who approach you really need to know? Or do their ears itch with the prospect of acquiring juicy information. Protecting the controversial information protects your integrity, even to those who just want to be in the know. 

Gossip creates division, confusion, and distraction. It is completely unproductive and unprofessional, but more than that, it does not honor God. 

He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets, But he who is trustworthy conceals a matter. Proverbs 11:13

He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, Therefore do not associate with a gossip. Proverbs 20:19 

Keep your tongue from evil And your lips from speaking deceit. Proverbs 34:13

Do yourself a favor. If you’re not involved, listen to other things that can add value to you. And if you’re a part of the problem and solution, apply wisdom to resolve this for the sake of unity, clarity, and productivity.

Overwhelmed? Focus! 


We’re nearing the end of the year and in the world of work, one word best describes the overall environment in the city — busy! And need I mention the obvious preoccupation: shopping for gifts? 

If you’re experiencing difficulty and distress caused by deadlines and deliverables, know that you have entered into the season of the year-end. The result could lead us to be overwhelmed, leaving us paralyzed and unproductive. But here’s a way to overcome: FOCUS. Easier said than done yet it’s got to be done. 

How does one stay focused? 

DECIDE WHAT TO DO. It is said that “if you fail to plan, you plan to fail” Some say that the best time to plan your day is the night before, some recommend you do it first thing in the morning. I say, it doesn’t matter. Just plan. Going through this may feel boring, but everyone reaps the rewards of being decisive in advance.  

DISTRACTION EXPECTATION. The problem with us is that we get caught off guard when distraction comes. Nowadays, distraction must be anticipated. Know that it will come so you can have a resolve to be committed and focused with what you’ve decided to zero in on.

DEAL WITH THE UNEXPECTED. Not everything is predictable because a million possibilities await you in a day. A good practice I learned is to make room for “free time.” You do need to roll with the punches and be flexible. Another tip is to schedule appointments or tasks for another day if possible. 

DELEGATE. When the unexpected becomes urgent, it doesn’t always mean that you need to do it all. Have a pool of competent colleagues in mind whom you can tap. Delegation not only helps you, it gives an opportunity for others to grow. The key is to position them for success by delegating tasks to the right people. 

DO THE TO DO’s. It’s one thing to plan; it’s another thing to execute. Focus on finishing up your tasks. If you design your day right, this is highly achievable. 

Focus gives you the stability this season, and every other season of your life demands. It helps you overcome the paralyzing state of being overwhelmed. So be calm, pray, and ask God for grace and wisdom and just focus.