It’s been nine days of being under community quarantine. We pastors have been busy still with our online operations, mobilizing relief to those who need it, and mostly, counseling people. A common thread I’ve heard these past few days is the issue of disappointment.
From cancelation of trips and weddings, to lost job opportunities, job security in peril, to health crises, etc. All these are valid triggers to disappointment.
It’s hard, and even impossible to encourage someone these days by means of pep talk and positivity grounded on empty assurance. But thank God for His Word that is filled with His promises and truths, all of which reveal to us a higher perspective.
Here’s a perspective from the apostle Paul that is true.
11 Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. 12 I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. Philippians 4:11-12 ESV
How do you deal with disappointment? It’s by having contentment.
Okay… That seems pretty illusive. How do you even be content? Is it by positive thinking, by convincing ourselves? Well the Christian knows how, but needs to be reminded often especially in times like these.
A Christian’s contentment is gained through Christ and found in Christ.
13 I can do all things through him who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 ESV
The essential thing in life is a life lived with Christ (in His presence), in Christ (in His power), and for Christ (for His mission). If you are not convinced about this, then contentment cannot be found.
But if you believe this, it is Christ Himself who will help us find this to be true in our lives. As you put all your earthly dreams and desires on one scale, and Christ in the other, you will see that a life lived with Christ is more than enough. It is the most essential.
Yes, it is okay to feel disappointed for losses, but you don’t have to remain a disappointed person and stay in that stance of defeat. Find contentment in Christ! It is possible!
May He strengthen you to do so as you find in your soul that Christ is truly enough.